Listen, believe, support - Yellow

Survivor blog

A cartoon image of a man shouting at a women. She is sitting on the floor and he is above her. There is a silhouette of fists behind him.

Trauma Bonding

Trauma bonding is a common psychological response to cycles of abuse.

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Why we keep telling women to “stay safe” on nights out and why it is such a problem

Our comms volunteer shares her thoughts on sexual violence at university and on nights out and discusses what needs to change.

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An open letter

I am writing this ‘open letter’ as a victim of sexual and emotional abuse in the hope that it may touch others and provide hope. That it may, in some minute way, bring about a grain of change that can be built on over time.

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Jellyfish – a safe and happy place

This beautiful piece of writing was produced by one of the participants in our Creative Minds group. The group were thinking about creating a safe and happy place.

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Lets Talk About Vaginismus

An often-difficult topic to discuss, but like many other topics the more we talk about them the less embarrassment they bring, and the more help and support people can access.

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How could I be friends with the man who assaulted me?

I recently read an article in the Guardian about what they called ‘unacknowledged rape’. The article stated that a large percentage of women have experienced sexual assault that they label as a misunderstanding, and it led me to think about sharing my own experience.

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Can We Really Reclaim the Night? 

A thoughtful blog from one of our counsellors about feeling less safe when the days get shorter and the season changes.

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How to make a self-care glitter jar

Making a glitter jar can be a relaxing and grounding experience, plus you have a re-usable grounding object at the end of it!

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Trauma and dissociation: part two

What can be useful as part of the recovery from dissociation trauma?

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Trauma and dissociation: part one

One of our great trauma therapists discusses what dissociation is and some of the symptoms that people may experience.